Coping with IBM

April 30, 2025April 30, 2025 Category: Research Breakthroughs

Results of a patient-led research project

Editor’s note: This is part two of a three-part series of articles from Dr. Kevin Austin, Adjunct Professor in the Health Futures Institute’s Personalized Medicine Centre at Murdoch University, Australia. He lives with IBM and turned his research skills toward a study to understand the priorities of those living with myositis and their care partners.

By Kevin Austin

In part 1 of this series, we revealed the priorities and challenges for Australian IBM patients, carers, and families. In this installment, we discuss how well they are coping (or not) with living and managing the risks and challenges they face on a day-to-day basis.

The 10 biggest challenges were, in order of importance, for patients and carers combined (details of what each heading meant can be found in the first blog of this series):

1. Uncertain future: disease progression, housing needs, and loss of independence
2. Coping with daily frustrations
3. Lack of cure, treatment, and understanding
4. Impact on carer’s capabilities and own needs
5. Change of roles and relationships
6. Getting information, education, and support when we need it
7. Significant impact on our mental health
8. Financial impact
9. Issues with Australia’s disability and aged care systems
10. Concern not covered by voluntary euthanasia

The following chart shows how well IBM patients and carers are coping (or not) with each of the significant challenges identified.

It can be seen that neither patients nor carers are coping well with any of the priority challenges. Overall, patients tend to cope a little better than carers. Carer burden is a significant priority. Additional analysis revealed that IBM patients and carers appeared to be coping less well than other forms of myositis.

Uncertainty has a direct impact on mental health

Life is tough just surviving on a day-to-day basis, particularly if one is living with IBM. Patients are really struggling with the day-to-day challenges in trying to merely get by and survive with the demands forced on them by living with IBM.

Even the most fundamental challenges are not addressed. Toileting, for example, can be a real challenge with the vast majority of public accessible toilets in Australia failing to meet the needs of myositis patients. A myositis patient is far more likely to suffer from urinary and fecal incontinence (shown in a recent different study), and the impact if away from home can be devastating. So getting out, going somewhere for a short break or holiday, meeting up with family and friends becomes a blocker or negative impact on mental health.

Sourcing of various pieces of equipment for different stages of severity of disease can also be really difficult and stressful.

Patients living in rural and remote regions find it even harder

Most participants reported frustration and difficulty in accessing medical specialists and allied health expertise, but this is even more challenging for those living in rural and remote regions. Some regional participants reported traveling over 12 hours for treatment.

Fear of living alone going into the future was often mentioned. Social issues were frequently mentioned (intimacy, sexuality, and relationship impact of myositis). Younger patients talked about their fears of not being around or loss of function and afraid of not being able to support their children growing up. We are planning to explore these themes and findings further and will be preparing subsequent publications to share this information.

Financial consequences can be severe

Financial burdens are real and faced by many living with myositis. There were many who reported financial difficulties in purchasing required supportive technologies and aids, for example, walkers, power wheelchairs, hospital style beds, toilet power raisers, etcetera.

Where can I go, what do I need now, versus what will I need in a year or two? Home and vehicle modifications can be exorbitant. Real concern of going bankrupt is on the rise, adding to an already significant mental health burden.

This adds to a general fear of financial inadequacy with dramatic increases in cost of living in Australia in recent times. It’s tough going. Patients are facing critical issues and challenges and are not managing or coping well with any of them.

One of our participants has recently been forced to surrender their car license. The sudden unexpected loss of independence has been quite profound.

Carers face their own challenges

Carers are facing critical issues and challenges and are also not coping or managing any of them particularly well. Poor management includes some of the most critical challenges. As the patients age, so do many of their carer/partners. Life is not only becoming tough for the patient, but the carer role is more difficult as well. Many of the study participants felt the role of carer was becoming more onerous.

There are some significant differences in perception of priorities between patients and carers. Several most important challenges to carers don’t appear to be acknowledged by patients. Carers find that the actual activity of caring has a significant impact on their “me” time. This appears to lead to a significant negative impact on their mental health. They are now unable to do many things they enjoyed doing before, largely due to their caring responsibilities.

There is a huge impact on relationships and, for couples, forced significant changes as carers go from loving relationships and lovers to being overwhelmed with just coping with added responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, administration, main breadwinner, and more.

Lack of an easy-to-understand disease framework

There doesn’t appear to be an easy-to-understand disease framework, so patients can’t figure out where they are in the IBM overall scheme of things and what might be coming next. Failure to understand is leading to increased anxiety around planning their future, downsizing their home, or obtaining equipment and assistive technologies.

Many differing opinions amongst the medical fraternity just add to the confusion, and carers struggle with where to go for quality help and support.

Through the eyes of patients and carers, their priorities are, perhaps, best summed up by a direct quote from an IBM patient that drew widespread support: “This disease sucks!”

Our final installment of this series will offer some initial ideas on how to better cope and improve resilience for those who live with IBM.

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